This is a group reading from The Council of 12 on the subject of resolving conflict. Some very useful advice for when you are being confronted with a similar situation.
"You must consider how you hold onto situations and how they serve you as an individual, as it takes two people to be involved in a conflict or more. You need to understand what it is that you are achieving from perpetuating the conflict.
Ego driven conflicts are normally unresolved; by taking the ego from the conflict and asking "how does this serve me, how will it serve me in the future?" is typically the answer to resolving the conflict. Because it is not about winning; it is about resolving the conflict and moving on. But there are no winners or losers. You need to progress on your spiritual path and by hanging on to old problems, old conflicts, old arguments, hurt feelings - that serves no-one.
Your Angels, Guides and Guardians will assist you in every possible way. They will place before you messages and lessons which you need to consider, you need to look at and then you need to act upon them. If you truly wish to resolve the conflict or to move on, you need to act. Procrastination will achieve nothing; acting frivolously will achieve even less.
You must act with purpose, you must act with love.
You must bless all of those who have interacted with you and thank them for the lessons they have provided and you will show gratitude to your Angels, Guides and Guardians.
You must be grateful to the Universe for allowing you to grow and giving you the opportunity to progress, while minimising the pain and suffering that most will undergo until they are pushed to see the light of the world: to see the truth for what it really is.
'To thine own self be true'. If to anyone in the world you must be truthful, it is yourself alone. Through that will come great progress, prosperity and joy and those three things are cherished by all.
Bless you all."
The Council Of 12